Oh, goody! Another Hallmark event. National Compliment Day…
Wait. This one wasn’t really invented by Hallmark!
Two gals from New Hampshire- Kathy Chamberlin and Debby Hoffyman came up with this special day. And it seems to have legs. Because providing compliments to another human being is a way to effect connections.
Given the pandemic- where we isolated from everyone- isn’t the ability to create connections a great idea? Do we want to stay isolated from the rest of the world even longer?
So, let’s get real.
Not just today, but we all should take the time out- EVERY SINGLE DAY- to thank folks for the little things they do. Pandemic or not.
Too many of our family and friend situations have us noticing every little peccadillo, leaving us unsatisfied. Especially during the pandemic, when we can’t go out and do things we really want to do. So, instead of noticing that smile that appeared when we walked in the room, the cup of coffee that was made and waiting for us…we think about something they didn’t do to make our day perfect.
Why isn’t we can’t see all those great things? That they outweigh the petty little things that we total up. Even though the good things really outweigh those small items that tick us off. (Amazing how we can’t create a balance beam to make us recognize that fact.)
After all, a compliment is one of the most powerful human things we can provide. It helps us validate another adult, help a child feel great.. in general, it just helps another person perceive a better day. It helps us- the giver, too, just for giving it.
So, let’s start a whole new thing. From today forward.
It’s time to put the ill will of the pandemic behind us.
Well said.
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Laconic- and i’m truly thrilled with your compliment.
I liked this post!
I learned (or relearned a new word: peccadillo! It’s very appropriate here!)
You’ve made some great points, and I can see that life would be happier for all of we all took them to heart.
However…not all will, but I can do my part and you can do yours. “Brighten the corner where you are!” 🎶
Laurie
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Laurie-
Thanks for reading the post- and taking it to heart!
Thank you for reminding me to compliment people — out loud. Also, I really enjoy your posts. I always learn something and have something to think about after I read.
Have a beautiful day!
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I’m thrilled you enjoy my posts. That’s exactly why I write.
Good point about neglecting the good and only noticing the bad. Makes one think a little bit more about their daily interactions with the people in their life. Nice reminder to step outside of one’s self.
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We need to do this way more often than we do!
I heard about national compliment day on the radio today. The lady at the microphone told us that she called each and everyone of her coworkers, her boss included, and paid them a sincere compliment. She did a nice job.
So here’s my compliment to you:
I think your blog is extremely versatile. There is so much to learn from you. Thank you!
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I am enthralled you find things to learn by visiting my site. Honestly- thank you for your visits.
I’m always for giving out compliments! Sending you compliments for all the great blogs you share!
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I’m honored, Martha. Thanks so much!
I haven’t heard of Compliment Day, but I like it!
You’re so right, Roy. I told a cashier how much I appreciated her hard work and sweet attitude and she almost started to cry. She’d been working so hard and was dealing with so many cranky people that just a little kindness turned her day around.
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You made her day, Victoria. And, she probably made someone else’s day (at least) because she was so happy that you shared your compliment with her.
Appreciation is a boost to the soul.Your blog always has interesting content Roy.Thank you for this
Thank you so much, Dr. A- for your comment- AND your visit.
So much to admire, you constantly inspire,
Complimenting you is the easiest thing to do!!!
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So honored by your ditty, Vidya! Thank you.