Imagine this scenario. It’s almost Christmas. And, you’re in a Hilton hotel bar- teeming with people celebrating, virtually wall to wall. And, you hear a voice. And, recognize it as that of a friend from decades past. “Jeffrey Fried, where are you?”, I call out. Seconds later… “Roy?”. I hadn’t seen Jeff in 21 years. But, I recognized his voice. (Which restarted our friendship for another decade, until I got married and moved away. Jeffrey Fried- where are you?)